It was overstuffed with recipes, it had long ago lost it's lid (whether
from wear or un-usefulness), and it had signs of heat damage from
literally not being able to stand the heat in the kitchen. The box
contained proper recipe cards, hand-written or typed pieces of paper,
and a few pages torn from magazines. This collection included
instructions for Holiday must-haves, favorites of close loved ones, and
frequently requested items. The inventory changed a bit as new favorites
world replace things that fell out of favor. But Lemon Meringue Pie and
Angel Biscuits earned permanent tenancy.
When
Noni left this world, and her belongings were distributed to loved
ones, my mom and her siblings each brought home some of Noni's most
iconic belongings. For reasons known only to my Mom, Aunt Bet, and their
brother, Uncle Butch, the Red Box went home with Aunt Bet.
Throughout
the years since Noni passed the red box has been consulted during meal
planning for most family gatherings. On more than one occasion my uncle,
Aunt Betty's husband, requested "anything from the red box" be prepared
for his birthday meal. I've certainly called Aunt Bet to ask for a
specific recipe I wanted to prepare. As time passed a few select recipes
found their way into the collection. It could be considered a
corruption of Noni's collection but I think she would approve of the
additions. I know the red box is not a living creature but family
gatherings continue to happen and celebrating the legacy of good times
passed feels like the right way to honor our ancestors.
Which
brings me to Thanksgiving weekend 2011. Close family, with whom I
usually exchange Christmas gifts, decided we'd all make homemade gifts
to exchange. It's an idea we try every couple years theoretically to
reduce the commercial aspect of the Holiday, and minimize the shopping
stress associated with the Holidays. While I like the personal aspect of
exchanging homemade gifts I allege it increases stress in those of us
who aren't particularly skilled at making things.
Regardless, the
edict was handed down and since I hadn't started shopping for any of
them yet I agreed. I'm so glad I did. I made two items for each
recipient that stretched my repertoire and I was satisfied with the
outcome.
The winner of the
exchange, not that it's a competition, but her gift was so good it
demanded the title of winner, was my Mom's younger sister, my Aunt Bet.
My
Mom brought the gifts for the homemade
exchange to my house for Christmas. Upon opening the gift from Aunt Bet I
discovered a pretty, pastel floral, box.